Do You Want to Become Attractive?

Do you want to uncover and discover how attractive you are? Then, keep reading, and you might find my methods surprising.

It is entirely natural that we want to be perceived as good-looking. Often, we are misguided into thinking that being attractive has everything to do with how we look on the outside. We fixate on our physical attributes and detest the tiniest of flaws.

Both women and men are consumed by the latest beauty trends and the hottest accessories in the market in hopes that these can make them attractive. An image of "attractiveness" is sold to us in social media, magazines, television, etc. The saddest part is that when we don't look or can't look like what we see on mainstream media, we get insecure.

The Glamour of the World Around Us

We attempt to blur all those aspects of ourselves that make us unique as individuals. Unique attributes are what makes us attractive. We are made memorable by what sets us apart from one another.

How are you unique?

I never thought of myself as being attractive in any sense. Growing up as a brown skinned girlie with wild frizzy hair and a heavier build. I was constantly reminded that I wasn't fair enough, thin enough, my hair wasn't straight enough, and altogether, I wasn't feminine enough. You can imagine how confused I felt whenever people found me attractive. It took me a while to accept that I am attractive even though I don't fit the world's beauty standards.

Confidence is Hot!

Believe it or not, personality plays a huge part in how attractive a person is. Once we understand what we have as unique individuals on the inside and the outside, I think we will be able to own our attractiveness.

Confidence is Hot!

Most people can confirm that the number one attractive quality in a person is confidence. We can't help being drawn to people who are confident in themselves. There is something about an individual who understands their identity and value. Individuals who are comfortable in their skin scream confidence and ooze natural beauty.

Please do have a bath!

Most people underestimate the importance of self-care when it comes to being attractive. Attractive people spend time and energy on themselves. Also, no one is going to take you seriously if you don't take care of your basic needs. It's as simple as making the effort to comb your hair, wear clean clothes and smell nice.

Men Need a Self-Care Routine as well

Investing in a self-care routine is worth it. It sends a subconscious message to that you are valuable. This applies to both men and women. There is this misconception that men are less manly if they have a self care routine, a manicure or pedicure, treat themselves to a massage, etc. Men, don't be afraid to invest in yourselves as well. Take the time and treat yourself right!

Show me those Pearly Whites!

Smile more! There have been studies that have shown that people who smile more frequently are more attractive. This doesn't mean that you go around and give strangers creepy smiles.

Smiles are highly contagious

Look at this woman and how beautiful her smile is. A smile shows people that you are a warm and friendly person.

Don't Neglect your Guts!

Are you interesting?

As much as we invest in our bodies, we must invest in who we are on the inside. It's as simple as being passionate about something. A hobby? History? Gaming? Hiking? People who have diverse interests are attractive and interesting. It sends a message that there is more than what meets the eye.

Also, be a good person and learn to be grounded. I don't think anyone finds nasty people attractive. So, it is worth doing the inner work and focus on self-growth. Challenge yourself to be a better person everyday whom takes the time to invest in your emotional, spiritual and mental health. The more you discover the glow within the more you will glow on the outside People are more likely to admire and respect you when you are grounded and are stable within yourself.

You are Attractive!

I don't want to be cliche but you are attractive as your are. You are created from a unique blueprint and there is no one like you. There is a deep beauty that comes with self-acceptance and there is nothing like it. Accept yourself! We don't need to be validated by the loud external voices but we need to be validated by the internal voice within us which matters the most. Own your attractiveness and shine as bright as you can my lovelies.

Glow Brightly!